Dear readers! My grief is bitter and deep, my tale is not worthy to be told but i feel helpless against my heart which is not letting me hide this deep sorrow in it. I will need your attention for the a few coming months for the problems which have arisen mainly due to abuse of mobile phones, internet and free mixing. You are requested to share my grief and suggest me the corrective way forward to encounter these issues.
Letter 4: Respected Hazrat Hakeem Sahib! Assalamu Alaikam! My first marriage took place 11 years ago but we soon separated as he was an evil natured person. I have a ten years old son from him. My second marriage was with my paternal cousin but he left me due to my child two years ago. Now i want to marry for the third time but i am scared if it would be successful or not. I am living with my three brothers who have their families to support as well and they are not that well up. My parents have died and i do not earn anything for myself. I do not know what to do. I am extremely worried.
Letter 5: The old age ailments in the youthful years: Respected Hazrat Hakeem Sahib, I have a pale face full of pimples with pus in them and loads of wrinkles, week teeth, a chronic strain in my shoulders and back, a permanent ache in my hip bone which does not let me move after a little distance and it also becomes intolerable pain while i sit; I have bad digestion, obesity, leucorrhoea, melancholy, thin hair, bad ear, nose and throat and my mouth is always full of saliva. The tip of my tongue is always paining and it is very hard to speak out. I experience twisting moods, a constant anger, depression, arrogance, and very often i mutter to myself. I do not have any goal in the life. I am always surrounded by the regrets and have an ill feeling towards my younger family members as well as for my parents. I do not mingle in gatherings and remain quiet most of the times. Due to constant arguments between my parents, i do not have any zeal to do anything at all. I always think of leaving my home, and my gestures are always rude. I have a bad appearance and nervous weakness. I never offer prayers and have mixed attitude towards listening music. I have no control over my mind as it is always possessed by stressful thoughts. This condition of uncertainty and lack of confidence has affected my trust into others. Sometimes, i think about goodness but i am never able to act upon it. I have nightmares quite often and they haunt me throughout the day. Please pray for me.
Letter 6: A deviant husband: Respected Hakeem Sahib, Assalamu Alaikam! It was in the last Ramadan that my husband would bring few of his friends daily into our house after the Iftaar who would spend the whole night in playing cards, listening to music, smoking shisha and having long gossips and then would depart after having the Sahri meal. When i reminded him that it was all disliked and against the Will of Allah, he would start shouting loudly and had fierce arguments with me. He said that i should not have any problem with it as he was himself arranging for all that. When i complained about all this to my mother in law to remind her son regarding Ramadan and she asked him, he became furious and attacked me physically with the worst abuses while beating me on my head. He had been doing this before as well. His actions which do not appeal me are so bad that when i stop him, he becomes infuriated and look like he is under the influence of any demonic effect and he is not shy of disgracing me in front of all my neighbours. I feel so pissed that i have asked my mother in-law to bring a second wife for him but after knowing about his bad habits and harsh temper, no one bothers about him. His expenditure is lavish. He sold the brand new car and invested into his business and that all went down the drains. He sold his second car on the same day without asking anyone. Now he is pursuing me to sell my property so that he could invest into his business. He would spend away all what he had earned in lavish activities and favoured his friends and became poorer and poorer by every passing day. He has immoral relations with the other women as well. Please pray for him.
Letter 7: the destruction by internet: Respected Hakeem Sahib, Assalamu Alaikam! May the Millions of Allah’s Blessings be upon you. I am quite worried about my son who never delves into his studies and always remains busy in texting and calling on his phone. He used to pray before but since he has a bought the latest mobile, he is completely heedless about praying or recitation of Quran. He has friended six seven girls and they exchange filthy texts and pictures among themselves. He posts filthy pictures on the Facebook which i have seen while he is asleep. He has disgraced me before the whole of my family. Please pray for the correction of my child. Dear readers, i have presented a handful of the aggrieved writings to you. What is their remedy and what needs to be done is what you need to suggest. I will wait for your response.
